Any success stories with ML/FL?
 

I'm married met a WL for 2.5months, 2-4 years younger than ne. Didn't thought of much at first when I visited her ad I like older woman. But after that, I got her for 包夜, then slowly slowly ended up liking her so much that I went to China to find her. Then spent a couple of days just travelling. In between, we were long d for about 2 to 3 weeks. Now back to long d.

We fuck raw, because she says that she always ensure customer use condoms. And during first time I met her, I noticed her attention always on the condom, so I feel that she should be safe. I have feelings for her, hence the sex feels even better. While she is hot, I really like her personality traits, then the sex.

Currently spent about sgd 13-15k on shopping, hotels, flights, food etc. I do give her some money here and there as she's currently not working (not too crazy, a couple of hundreds.) She gives me the feeling like my ex, my hearbeat can raise to 120/150 but can also drop to 80. huge fluctuations, very passionate and emotional. But the thing is I am married for almost a decade. My wife is very good but we don't have that passionate feeling. However, if shit hits the fan, I know she will be there no matter.what.

Never been in a r/s with WL/ML - wanted to ask if there's any success stories.

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Don’t mind me asking, how long have you been visiting spas and other MLs before you met this ‘special’ ML of yours.

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just take her as mistress and hav fun while u not caught......don't be too serious with WL.....

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Bro power, married can still go overseas meet mistress ML. Multitasking and track covering champion.
Not to burst your bubble but super high chance she just treating you as her ATM, you should be prepared for the worst and try not to let your heart sink in even more.

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A success story is when a man is sick and poor, his woman stick with him.

Let's put it bluntly, u are rich and the FL is well taken care of and spending your money. Once the freshness is gone or when she met another richer man, do U think she still stay with U?

Stop scrubbing a public toilet.

Cherish your wife. It takes 2 hands to clap. Not compassionate? Think again, have you done anything to improve the romance? When was the last time the 2 of you hang out on a holidays together like the way U spent the trip with the fl?

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What is your definition of success ?

A long term exclusive mistress or into official marriage ?
If mistress, you don't really care who she fucked before, and prob even not now if she is also doing someone or many many someones by the side.

But if you want to go into marriage with her, your mindset after is going to change a lot a lot.
Your current wife is giving you the platform you have now to do your things.
Might want to give that a huge consideration.

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Check your inbox bro

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This must be the single best quote about dating an ML/FL.

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I'm thinking of divorce and marrying her. So wanted to check anyone got success story of marrying FL. I got cheong spa before and managed to unlock MLs but 'chicken out' because she wanted to be exclusive. But for this FL, I am really tio gong tao. I met her sister (maybe others also) and we really talk about everything. So I am really falling in deep

The first step towards downturn of life is to fuckup a working current marriage. Bros advice got it right, it's fresh for you and things are working well. If suddenly you divorced and marry her, and with 1 pay u need to support 2 sides, trust me, everything goes haywire. Suddenly fairytale story turns nightmare, why fuck up your life... just drink milk outside when u thirsty, why bring cow home..

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After spending so much money, you don't even know her actual age. How much of her personal details do you truly understand? If you don't know her age, how sure are you that every customer use condoms?

You said your wife is very good even after having this other woman outside. That is unusual. Many guys will say their wife is no good that is why they have other women outside. You can cheat on her, you can divorce her but please don't bring home an incurable STD to such a good woman. Because after you had divorced her, the incurable std may mean she will never have another man to look after her for life. A good woman deserves better right?

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If you are fucking her raw, you can bet your last dollar that she is also fucking countless other bros raw. Don't think too much when FL tells you that you are the only one fucking her raw.

I know her personal details, family and I met her sister. Just not sharing actual details here. But I agree with the rest and thanks for pointing it out

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my personal advice is don't do it, but since you are hoping for some encouragement, i got 3 stories for you:

1) close friend of 20 years, married with 2 kids, in his defence his wife after 2nd kid let herself go, turn into watermelon, he already chiong spas for a decade by that point, met the ML, fell in love, wife found out, divorce him (fun fact! after divorce, the ex-wife slimmed down dramatically until she can wear a 2 pc bikini to the beach!), and he married her. i can only describe the marriage as turbulent, plenty of ups and downs, as wife bring a step kid with her from china, and he gotta support his ex-wife and kids including giving up his share of the HDB, and then they themselves got a kid later on so total 4 kids to support, his income is decent, 8 to 9k a month but still a struggle, and wife now back to working in MP (she say is really decent, but who knows she might accept a HJ request here and there?), and she always suspect and accuse my friend of going MP (which in truth, he still got go lol) and i heard during a fight she threw a pair of scissors at him before lol, but when good times, he say the sex is still good, will even let him anal and cim cof cob

2) next story, not sure if will be success as only been 3 months, went kuching with another close friend for a wedding, after wedding went KTV, fell hard for a fuzhou girl, now having affair, long D rs, have gone to chongqing for a 1 week holiday, intend to visit her at kuching in august, meanwhile everyday messaging each other like young lovers, will sneak in a 20min video call on his way home, she has quit her KTV job and he is supporting her now, 9k ringgit currently, i feel the girl is genuine, 32 years old, 33 soon, was going to quit the KTV life anyway, and my friend happen to be there, he already told her he will not marry her, but she is pushing to visit him in SG which he has rejected multiple times, i think the girl's family is aware of him already (the younger sister for sure aware as she is the ktv mummy lol), i think the mother is aware of him as she has prepared food to bring for his chongqing holiday, but i think she doesn't know he's married..... not sure how this will end but gut feeling is by 2nd year she will insist on marriage or end it. another reason my friend fell for her as he has an unhappy marriage, wife is a harsh woman and we're close family friends i've seen her constant bitch behavior (anything bad will blame him, good stuff will never credit him). when he went kuching first night we got insanely drunk and it was raining so at the entrance of our airbnb he slip and fell on his shoulders, told me next day super painful but will chiong for MY SAKE! then went to another ktv that night and fell hard for her, told me she help to massage his shoulder, help him wear clothes, help him wear socks and shoes... went back to singapore, told wife when he reach home his shoulder in pain, the wife never even look up, back facing him busy playing with candy crush, and told him, unpack and go NTUC buy rice! hahah you see this kind of behavior and then think back the girl give you TLC, sure fall in love ahhhh, anyway turn out to be a serious injury in the end, his tendon fall out of the socket joint and had to go doctor to push it back in place.

3) 3rd story, a failure story to sober you up, another close friend, fell in love with his maid, wife found out, now super messy, cos got 2 kids, want to divorce but when see the kids decide not to divorce, but heart cannot forgive, so want to divorce, flip flop here and there, very unhappy family, so TS if you got kids, better think twice, want to fling just fling, but end of day go home and take care of family, and the elder kid found out and now hate the father

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Don't do that bro, been there, done it. It's gonna be complicated and lots of heartaches, plenty of hiding, many Wechat contacts that you don't realise ever existed. They are mostly stuck in this ecosystem where many of their friends are MLs/FLs/Agents in HK/MY/SG/CN and you'd be really better off dating a local. :(:(:(