borrowing money from WL
 

hi bros ,
I'm a newbie here.. wanted to share my experience here and hope to get some advices from you guys..
i'm married and got a kid one year old. few months ago before Chinese new year I gamble and lost many many money.. I borrowed from loan shark and was unable to pay.. one day after losing 7k, I go geylang for bonking..

happened to bonk a talkative prc.. keep asking about my everyday life.. however I was really too upset to talk to her after my 7k lost. her service was great.. later which I found out that one day only 2 3 customers.. after my 2 visit, same after losing some money.. she take wechat from me . 3rd visit to her she code red.. I call another lady.. four visit to her we raw.. i'm the one who insist as she claims that she has got feelings for me.. from than we wechat everyday till now.. meet for moives(when she code red) beach free fuck and than carparks free fuck if she not tired.

March I started to realise that her customers base increase and might not be trueful to me so I tryborrowing 1k from her.pay her back the second day. than I try 5k during our quarrels.. she say : break up nevermind the 5k u can still come take.. promise to pay her daily basic of at least 100 aday.. somethings pay 200 300 sometimes only 100. till date paid her 2500 already requested her to lend me another 2.5kpromise to pay her back same basics..

i'm 9years older than her. not handsome and not rich.. whats has she gain by loving me? I've visited her more than 10times in the shop but that's not much? 5k not a sm amount..

i went gambling and lost 2k last night.. i really wish to quit gambling and pay her money finish and become a better husband and father.. just cant do it..

Re: borrowing money from WL
 

what u want us to advice ah? u already borrow from her and maybe u should stop gamble or gamble within your means...

just pay her back slowly lor cause is also her hard earn money lol .


cheers

Re: borrowing money from WL
 

Bro,

You should go here http://www.ncpg.org.sg/en/Pages/home.aspx instead for help.

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TS, there's no such thing as CANNOT if you aren't determine enough to correct and turn over a new leaf, STOP your gambling as you will ruin your family and your child's future is at stake. Stop borrowing and work part time too to get your loan pay off soon. No one can help you if you are not helping yourself. Wake up man!!!

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Borrow from hooker and gamble sure bad luck.

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Zhun boh??? Not rich, not hamsome, 10 yrs older, large gambling losses, can drive car for car sex, can do raw, free fucks some more, loan sharks never harass you?... You sure is not just a story?

Sounds UNBELIEVABLE! Intro her leh, I also want!

So many problems still can maintain a car? If you are so spineless and got no willpower, better divorce your wife and give up your child to stop burdening them later, then marry that prc and eat slipper rice...

Or continue like that and maybe your wife have to become like the prc, become a WL n your child cannot afford to go to school...

If your story is true, sell yr car, settle yr debts, stop yr nonsense with the prc and WAKE UP!

Your choice... :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

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Bro pls wake up la!!!u think prc will lend they hardearn money to u??5k nt 50 leh.they need to raise famiky back in china lo.anyway like bro say borrow money gamble cfm lose till pants drop.settle loanshark first or else u cfm jialat.i gt lobang for license moneylender pm me if u interested.lol

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u should go and talk to a gambling counseller immediatly

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Stop gambling. Dont chase after yr losses. Let it go and move on.

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5k is a small amt. i also a gambler haha but seldom lose money. Though once we at mbs lost over 60k，she offer to lend me 15k on the spot cos i forget to bring my card in the car. I want to return her but she declined saying is just small amt. :p

15k no big deal also. I ever borrow 50k from WL and still in process of paying.

I am not handsome, no car, no house, no land and sometimes no job. Why she lend me?

Talk is cheap leh...... All fantasy here. Haha.

Just passing by nia, on purpose though.

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u a man anot? borrow money from a woman, not to mention a WL?

u will never amount to much.

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You are my hero can lose 60k at mbs

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Why gamble ? Save the money for your family better ... You are not young or single Le got wife still go geylang? Wan to gamble go Facebook play 明星3缺1 or go y8 play Texas poker better will not lose money still can level up

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Wow...like that also can! Praise you for can!

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TS< you rich or handsome, I don't give a damn. You feel bad about borrowing from a WL and gambling? Then you better go seek help for your gambling habit and return the money to the WL.

You say you have a family. Do you know that GAMBLING is the primary reason for many family tragedies. E.g. Divorce, Kids going astray due to lack of parental love, Suicide, etc.

If you care for your family, kick the habit. Else, time for you to leave those you love and those who love you. You deserve neither.

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15k is small amt i actually want return her，she say dont need，dont want because of money spoil our relationship. We both very young at that time. i can say very few guys can beat me in looks

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I'm also a hardcore gambler, but to lose money and still got mood to bond a chick must be damn solid:eek:

Never borrow money to gamble, if luck not with you, lose within ownself limit.

30 years of hardcore gambling, smlj I never see before :D

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Really envy guys here who can KC these WL. For me if i can get free bonk from them i happy liao

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TS, u need a very strong will power to kick away the gambling habit. Whenever u hv the urge to gamble, do others things to divert ur attention.

Contact the organizations as below for repayment of debt n counselling help.

Credit Counselling Singapore
http://www.ccs.org.sg/services

Blessed Grace Social Services
http://www.bgss.org.sg/#!letter-of-appreciation/c211q

Apply for urself a casino exclusion to bar urself fm entering into the casinos. Dun always give urself false hope of wanting to recover the losses, it will only let u sink more deeper. Seek help asap! ;)

Well bro, thank God for ur good looks then.

Glad to know. Have fun.

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Decided to try my luck with my regular mls at ot,fc,balestier.manage to borrow 10k only..hmmm nvr try nvr know.lolx going to rtn them tml.

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you comparing yourself with william hung and steven lim? just joking dun angry uh ...

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In the shop still have to pay，i mean for show but when u with her outside is like couple.

I comparing to aaron kwok and jjlin. Maybe lose to aaron kwok but surely confident beat jjlin if all same age in a sch 花草 competition.

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be more humble no need so show off de hahahaha ... look nice character ike shit also shit

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pls teach me how to talk with WL until they willing to give me 5k

then i keep 7 wl as my mistress, every month take turn to 'lend' me 5k

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:p My kc policy is always invest and love urself. A man who is full of himself is a man who is full of women's love. I must learn frm aaron kwok.

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As usual my advice the best here.

There's nothing she can do to you in spore la.
Maybe in Prc, she will grab your kidneys.

If she ask you to be sponsor etc, you say no she LL.
The ah longs won't help her collect her debts n if she don't have yr details, the legal debt collectors LL too.

She help you out of kindness la.
Just Don't be a scumbag n don't pay her.

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Invest on yourself till you are so popular with many girls that the wl will want u for her own. I call this the art of mass seduction.

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So end of the day, did you return her the $15K?